I know that the title of this blog post might throw you for a loop. You might be thinking to yourself what an idiot I am for writing this. Well, slow down. You might want to relax for a little bit. Just open your mind and pay attention to what I’m about to say.

You have to understand that a lot of guys who are searching for women who are looking for sex are doing it wrong. I can’t fault them for looking online or installing mobile apps to get laid. That’s what you should be doing. You are positioning yourself in such a way that you can get access to a wide pool of women. Congratulations on that!

The problem is not the location. The problem is not the website or the mobile app. The problem is the mindset of these guys. If you find yourself failing again and again in your attempts at looking for chicks who are down to fuck, you might want to understand that you are probably doing it wrong. Nobody likes to be told that they’re doing things wrong. That’s why I can understand if you’re a little defensive right now, but listen to me.

Remember to look for women who are looking for sex. This is the secret. Unfortunately, a lot of guys are looking for women that they are going to try to talk into sex. What’s wrong with that picture? You’re trying to convert people. I’m not saying that you won’t succeed. I’m not saying that you can get laid here and there, but if you want to get action consistently, you need to look for somebody who is already there with you. In other words, they’re already at the same place where you need them to be, to sign on the dotted line. They’re all ready to get off the fence and do the deed. Do you see the difference here?

It’s all about proper audience targeting. Unfortunately, so many guys out there looking for pussy are completely blind to this. They think it’s all about conversion. They think it’s all about getting women to do what they want them to do. Completely wrong. That’s why a lot of these guys end up lonely at night and just jerking off to sleep – not a winning solution.